Life Is Beautiful

私はもはやあなたのモンスターだん
"I am no longer your monster"



Hey there! Names Lauren Colby, Im Queer, Pagan, an anime nerd, a video game nerd. and just flat out weird. I like graveyards and ghost stories. Im also in love with my girlfriend Nell

10 Rude questions to ask someone who is Trans*/GenderQueer

1) So…are you a boy or a girl?

2) how do you have sex?

3) Why would you want that?

4) are you going to get a Penis/Vagina?

5) But you have a penis/vagina, so….you’re a boy/girl.

6) Whats your REAL name?

7) Im just going to call you by your real name.

8) What are you?

9) Do you have a Penis or a Vagina?

10)  So wait… Doesnt this just mean youre straight?

Happy pride month to all my homos out there!!!

Happy pride month to all my homos out there!!!

Kinda sucks when no one wants to take you to frolic…

I’ve asked a few people if they wanted to go with be… but they all have an issue with me practically being Trans and wearing a suit ._.

Only one person noticed me almost crying at lunch today when everyone was harassing me…

I’m glad he asked me if i was ok…

and he’s actually respecting me by calling me by my preferred name and pronouns 

So beautiful <3

So beautiful <3

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Gender Queer (GQ) : Non-Binary, term for gender identities other than man and woman, thus outside of the gender binary and heteronormativity. 

This blog is about my life being genderqueer, my opinons, thoughts, quotes, etc etc. Feel free to submit and ask stuff :) very friendly!

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Its about myself as a boy and letting out my genderqueerness

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When the teacher asks for James, and he can say, ‘I’m here’

Brave New Voices “Hir”

Top Surgery…

Top Surgery has been on my mind lately

Im already a B32ish and i’ve always hated having a chest since i was a kid. I enjoy being a girl (sometimes) but i just HATE boobs….I wear a binder sometimes, meaning  i put elastics over my breasts to flatten them best i can. and wear heels so i can be slightly taller. i want a REAL binder but i dont have the money. nor do i have a debit card to buy one offline

but in the future.. top surgery…?

Yes or no?

starsinthegutter:

porcelainpoet:

dominic-scaia:

19 year old transman violently attacked for being trans

19-year-old transman, James Alexander, was violently attacked for being trans yesterday morning while going for a walk in his neighborhood. To get to his destination, he had to walk past the house of a girl he was once interested in who had turned him down in the past (saying that “she can’t be with him because he’s not a real man” and that “she’d consider him IF he had a penis.”, and also calling him a “faggot”.), but he didn’t think anything of it, as he’s lived in the area for three years. He certainly wasn’t expecting what was to come.

As he walked past the house of the girl, she came out, and told him she wanted to talk to him. James stopped, to be polite, and because he figured he’d let her say what she needed to say. She asked him if he is a man, to which he said “Yes.”. She then told him to prove he’s a man. He told her off, and began to walk away.  As he was walking away, he felt someone grab the back of his shirt. The person spun him around to face them, and he discovered that it was the girls six-foot-five, 25-year-old boyfriend, Mark. Mark yelled in his face and also told him to prove he was a guy. James told him to back off, and shoved him away. Both the girl and Mark called James a “faggot”, and he began to cry. The two of them then proceeded to make fun of James for crying, saying “Oh look, the little girl is crying”. James started to walk away again, as Mark approached him and punched him in the face, right in the eye.. and continued hitting him repeatedly, while laughing, because James was crying.

James, who is significantly smaller than Mark, at five-foot-eight, and is not a violent person at all, defended himself as best he could, and got away.. but not before he sustained injuries to his face and hand, as well as psychological trauma.

James’ mother called the police, and also had him take photos of his injuries.. but it would seem that Mark is not going to be charged, after all. James explains, “It’s his word against mine. He has his mom, his girl, and three other people saying he didn’t do anything.. so even though I have a broken face and can’t physically stop crying or shaking, he is just getting a warning. I’m pressing charges, but he won’t be arrested. Just told to go to court on a certain day I guess.”

The bottom line is that he was attacked for a specific reason; for being trans. That qualifies what happened to him as a hate crime. This was a violent transphobic attack, and the guy who did this to this 19 year old transman, needs to be charged and convicted accordingly. It’s unfortunate that they won’t arrest Mark.. but I do hope that once this goes to court, he’s punished. He shouldn’t be able to just get away with this. Too many times has an incident like this happened, and the attacker gone free. It’s time we (transgender individuals) started being taken seriously when things like this happen to us.

If anyone who is reading this knows of any resources that could help James to ensure his attacker is convicted (legal counsel for trans people, etc), he can be contacted at ericjames1302@yahoo.com.

Also, if you’re a journalist who would like to write about this, I encourage you to do so, as increasing awareness about this incident is very important. There needs to be a huge public outcry about this. This boy needs all the support he can get. Then, maybe something will be done.
Once again, James can be contacted at ericjames1302@yahoo.com.

I hate knowing that these kind of crimes are going on unpunished. :(

this makes me sick to my stomach. i am not proud to be a part of this world any more.

To those who didn’t want Chaz Bono on DWTS because he would disrupt our society….

I beg to differ

w/ homemade binder

w/ homemade binder

tired of trying to please people

Anyone have any ideas to Bind from things at home?

other then ace tape or duct tape?

do these things work?

Im a B36 or less, im about 5’3” and 110lbs

tattooed-love-boy:

#am I the only one this happens to or…
I love making rage comics &lt;3

tattooed-love-boy:

#am I the only one this happens to or…

I love making rage comics <3

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